Elder Abuse is:

  • Pushing, hitting, punching.

  • Shouting at, berating, intimidating, threatening to harm an older adult.

  • Taking financial advantage of an older adult.

  • Taking money an older adult needs, “borrowing” money with no intention to pay it back, tricking someone to buy something he/she has no use for.

  • Threatening to withhold medications.

  • Neglecting an older adult’s physical, medical, and emotional needs.

  • Unwanted physical contact of any kind.

  • Preventing an older adult from accessing services.

What to Look for:

  • Unusual injuries, bruises, burns.

  • Increased fear, withdrawal, agitation.

  • Sudden inability to pay bills, purchase food, personal items, or medication.

  • Changes in appetite; unusual weight gain or loss.

  • Poor personal hygiene.

  • Confusion over finances.

  • Unexplained changes in health, including mental status.

  • Caregiver(s) who do not allow the older adult to speak for themself.

Ways You can Help:

  • Respect and honor older adults.

  • Report suspected abuse/mistreatment or self-neglect.

  • Help to find supportive resources.

  • Visit regularly; monitor the well-being of older adults and neighbors.

  • Help keep track of medications and doctors’ visits.

  • Volunteer to help.

  • Realize abuse can happen in any family or neighborhood.

  • Speak up when something looks or sounds wrong.

If you are experiencing abuse or mistreatment:

  • You are not alone.

  • It is not your fault. No one deserves to be harmed, disrespected, or abused.

  • Trust your instincts.

  • Professionals are here to help you explore your options when you’re ready.

  • Seek out support from someone you trust.

  • Know that calls to the Upstate Elder Abuse Center at Lifespan are confidential, and consultation and case management are free.

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